hate mail


Chris Stone (cstone05@sprynet.com)
Sun, 07 Mar 1999 17:54:51 -0500


After reading the unfortunate letter that was sent privately to Jewelia, my impulse is to huddle in the dark--or to cry. She is wise to post it publically because it gives us all a chance to reflect on the power of hurtful words, even in the semi-anonymous world of cybermail.
    The daily outpourings of encouragement, advice, wit, and yes, quirky thinking, make this a unique forum, one I look forward to joining every day. Underneath, alas, there appears to be a darker mood. Critiques not only of ideas (which are fair game and welcome), but also harsh judgments of personalities and personal styles. Angry words for those who post "inappropriate" topics (not that anyone seems sure what those are). Intolerance for those who speak a little differently. Ouch.
    In the midst of the current flame war, I hope a call to civility, patience, and overall support for fellow members won't be taken amiss. I live in Philadelphia and get the other stuff here.
    -- Matthew Hoffman
    
    Ouch.
    mood that's less benign--or at least short-tempered and intolerant of . So many short tempers, so much intolerance
    By turns I've been gratified, fascinated, and amused by the outpourings of advice, philosophy, quirky thinking, and overall by the outpouring of helpful advice,



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