Re: hate mail


Bob_Maxey@mtn.3com.com
Sun, 07 Mar 1999 16:08:47 -0700


>>After reading the unfortunate letter that was sent privately to Jewelia,
my >>impulse is to huddle in the dark--or to cry. She is wise to post it
publically >>because it gives us all a chance to reflect on the power of
hurtful words, even >>in the semi-anonymous world of cybermail.
>>
>>In the midst of the current flame war, I hope a call to civility,
patience, >>and overall support for fellow members won't be taken amiss. I
live in >>Philadelphia and get the other stuff here.

At the risk of this post being called hate mail, let me ask you this: You
ask for civility and it seems you do not want flame wars. I agree.
Disagreements and comments should be sent privately. But why do some on
this list insist of taking a private mail message and posting it publicly?
This is insane. Some do not want a flame war, and to help eliminate the
possibility of one, it is agreed by many, that some comments and replies
that are not for the list be sent privately.

Then, someone takes that private message, makes it public and the very
thing happens that is not supposed to happen. Do some of you not quite get
the idea here? List Ops, jump in here.

IF IT IS A PRIVATE COMMENT, DON'T POST IT PUBLICLY! Unless, of course you
want others to blast someone publically and save the time.

RM



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