Re: Dear Hearts/Judy/Terry

Terry King (KINGNAPOLEONPHOTO@compuserve.com)
Tue, 01 Jul 1997 19:33:47 -0400

Message text written by Darryl Baird
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I told you, Terry, when this first became a problem just to back-off
injecting yourself into Judy's posts and the problem would disolve. You
claimed that Judy was the bully--couldn't agree that the list was too
important for "you" not to be heard, regardless of the conflict....the
"modest request" that's been mentioned. I, like others, have had to
stay clear of your brow-beating to keep my composure...I don't do gum
luckily. Judy was clearly not able to accomodate your "style." Why oh
why is it so important to be heard and at what cost?
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Darryl

Judy's request was not modest. It was outrageous. She has to be queen and
nobody, even if they have a wider knowledge than hers, can comment on her
advice which is often open to question. The poor little girl being bullied
act just does not wash. She wants her own way and sulks when she cannot
get it. She has bored and bullied people off this list whose contributions
would have been more valuable than hers.

I have not been having a fight with Judy. She has been attacking me for
over a year, since the 'theory' debate, with lies, distortions,
manipulations and appeals to other members of this list that nasty,
stalking, bullying , macho. sexist, obsessive, oedipus complexed and
conspiring Terry should leave poor little inoffensive Judy alone and not
play like a nasty big boy and spoil her game. I am amazed that some have
swallowed this garbage. Those who know me know that it is garbage. She
starts flames including this one. She has got rid of others in this
underhand and devious way. I was warned by somebody else on this list
that to cross Judy was a mistake as she was a very dirty fighter. She is.

Judy may be good fun but she certainly knows how to cause trouble. She is
not only controversial but cruel. She would not have dared make the
comments she did about me in her last posting had I lived in the litigious
US. I originally thought that it would be cruel to reply to that
irrational spleen but on reconsideration I was being far too courteous and
British.

I want to listen and learn and, where I can, make a contribution on matters
relevent to alternative processes. Others may disagree with me and I with
others but that is the richness of the list. It is from discussions of that
kind that we all learn. But not if an irrational individual tries to hold
the list to ransom.

Now Judy has gone perhaps the list will revert to its original objective
as a valuable educational resource.

Terry

I acknowledge comments from others.