Re: new subject line about ...... aaaggghhh!!!! ...."consensus'!

[Sandy King <sanking@clemson.edu>]

Hi Judy,

No, the thrill is not that of an authoritative woman. The thrill is 
seeing an otherwise logical and rational woman turn into Pavlov's dog 
with the mention of the gum pigment test.

I won't suggest any potential reading for this condition because in 
matters regarding the gum pigment test I think you are not a good 
candidate for therapy, or for further personal growth. The only 
possible cure that I see for you is a complete program of abstinence.


Sandy




At 6:35 PM -0400 5/8/08, Judy Seigel wrote:
> On Wed, 7 May 2008, Sandy King wrote:
>
> > But it sure turns me on when you talk that gum pigment test trash!
> It's difficult to tell in advance what's going to turn some men 
> on... I mean (supposedly) GROWN MEN !  (If only Elliot Spitzer had 
> been so easy to excite, we might have saved a governor !) In this 
> case, apparently, the thrill is an authoritative woman! 
> Professionals say this particular fetish stems from early childhood 
> (tho I daresay most of them do) and follows some fairly predictable 
> patterns, even stereotypes.
>
> Sorry, I don't have any handcuffs, trusses, whips, etc, on hand, tho 
> I do have a variety of powerful test strips. More helpfully for your 
> problem, however, permit me to suggest a few references. What 
> immediately comes to mind of course is Havelock Ellis: "Psychopathia 
> Sexualis." You may not have it on your shelf -- in which case, try 
> Google.  Plus of course other, more recent references, for 
> instance..... Oh, check Charles Brenner, Socarides, Wilhelm Reich, 
> Harry Stack Sullivan, Ernst Kris... etc. (Though consensus remains 
> that the basic insights were Freud's, the name itself continues to 
> terrify some psychopaths.)
>
> In any event, given some competent therapy and sincere effort on the 
> part of the patient, chances are good for, not necessarily complete 
> cure, but personal growth toward -- the technical term is "maturity."
>
> J.